SCHIZOPHRENIA DIGEST, Winter 2008
The power of brotherly love
My Brother's Madness: A Memoir
By Paul Pines (Curbstone Press, 2007)
Reviewed by Patricia Jane Teskey
This memoir engages the reader
like a novel. The author, Paul, and his younger brother, Claude, grow
up coping with a mother who abandons them, a stepmother who dislikes
them, and a father who loves them, but fails to protect them. Claude's
paranoid schizophrenia is just one strand weaving through a complex web
of family relationships. Pines' use of subjective, sensory imagery to
express the emotional atmosphere of his childhood,
at times suggests a causal link between an emotionally painful
childhood
and the development of Claude's paranoid symptoms (though the author
does not explicitly draw this conclusion). These childhood memories
provide readers with a context for understanding the brothers' adult
relationship. By the time their parents die and Paul becomes Claude's
sole
family caregiver, they have already established a pattern of reaching
out to, and then rejecting, each other. Paul assumes the caregiver role
with a mix of
protective love and simmering anger that many family caregivers will
identify with. Both brothers also make sharply astute observations
about America's mental health system. They achieve bittersweet
reconciliation
before Claude dies, making this a story of grief and healing, told with
stark and uncompromising honesty.
Patricia Jane Teskey, a freelance writer with a stronginterest in mental health issues, is based in Toronto, Ontario.